Happy Post Labor Day!! Who’s still exhausted from the weekend? *Raises hand*
I had a great weekend, but man…it seems like having fun wears me out and it takes a while to recover. But it’s a sacrifice I’m willing to make. 🙂
So, an interesting situation happened on Saturday. The fam and I went out in the boat for a little joyride and we found a nice little cove that was perfect for swimming. So we’re out there swimming and chilling and being all relaxed when another boat pulls into the cove. Then another boat. And another. And another. Pretty soon there were 6 or 8 boats in our cove and it was obvious they had planned to gather there and have a little Labor Day Weekend party. Coincidentally, my husband knew some of these people so we decided to join them, which was fine…at first.
The group was made up of 30-something couples (married or dating) and there were a few little kids running around splashing and swimming. I noticed that several of the women were wearing bikinis…not tankinis…but itty bitty bikinis and they didn’t look awful in them. They all actually looked pretty darn good. Dammit.
Remember, I’m 44 and roughly 60 pounds overweight.
Wanna recipe for disaster? Here ya go:
How to Make Yourself Feel Like a Beached Whale in 4 Easy Steps
- Be 60 pounds overweight
- Wear a black and white one piece swimsuit similar to this:
- Surround yourself with hot mamas who are 15 years younger than yourself
- Wait for Greenpeace to show up and haul your arse back into the water
My husband could tell that my mood had shifted, so when he came to check on me, I decided to tell him why. I rarely tell him when things like this bother me, but I decided to be honest about it and I said “all these women in bikinis are making me feel bad”, to which he said some very sweet things which I will keep private, but I felt much better after our little talk. I realized that for whatever reason, my husband really does only have eyes for me. ❤
Unfortunately, I didn’t practice having self compassion that day. But I realize this is a process and it will get easier. Giving myself a break will get easier and believing that I am worthy NO MATTER WHAT will get easier too.
But I’m DEFINITELY getting a different swimsuit next year.